Home.
Most people with a learning disability in Portsmouth live with family, while others live alone or in supported housing. These stories reflect that wider picture, sharing personal experiences of home, independence, and belonging.
David lives with his mum in North Portsmouth and feels safe in the family flat. He doesn’t want to move out, saying, “You only have one mum,” though he would like somewhere safer.
David Dewer’s story
Finlay lives independently in Portsmouth and describes it as fantastic. He says living in his own flat has made him feel confident.
Finlay’s story
Ian has lived independently for ten years and values the freedom it gives him. He was nervous at first but now feels confident and settled at home.
Ian’s story
Jackie lives in a residential care home and keeps in touch with her son by phone. She is absolutely proud of him and the work he does.
Jackie’s story
John lives alone in sheltered housing after previously living with his parents and later caring for his wife. He says he received no support after his wife’s death but stays in touch with his stepson.
John Atrill’s story
Kevin lives alone in a ground-floor flat and prefers having his own space after difficult shared living. He looks after himself with minimal support and says he wants to “watch my own telly.”
Kevin Skilton’s story
Lewis lives in supported living and likes the area around his home. His favourite place is his bedroom, his “sanctuary,” where music helps him feel calm.
Lewis’s story
Maryanne lives independently in supported accommodation and is proud of settling into her own flat. She enjoys being near the seafront and caring for her bird, though stairs make access harder.
Maryanne’s story
Ray was sectioned and sent to Coldeast Hospital at eighteen and remained there for twenty-five years. After discharge he moved around and later returned to see the site turned into housing.
Ray’s story
Nathan lives in a flat in Portsmouth with his friend Lewis and enjoys having his own space to relax. He would like to live independently in the future but feels not quite ready yet, and hopes to have pets when he does.
Nathan Golding-Lable’s story
Richard spent eight years in high and low secure hospital units after a fire-setting incident. He described the experience as frightening and restrictive, with limited family visits and lasting injury.
Richard’s story
Sophie lives with her parents in Southsea and enjoys her local area. She would like to live independently but her parents are anxious about her moving out.